{"id":2912,"date":"2011-10-18T07:58:54","date_gmt":"2011-10-18T12:58:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.elca.org\/faithlens\/?p=2912"},"modified":"2011-10-11T14:21:35","modified_gmt":"2011-10-11T19:21:35","slug":"october-23-2011","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.elca.org\/faithlens\/october-23-2011\/","title":{"rendered":"October 23, 2011&#8211;Proactive Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Contributed by Dennis Sepper, Pacific Lutheran University<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Warm-up Question<\/h3>\n<p>Did you help someone out today?\u00a0 How?\u00a0 How did it make you feel?<\/p>\n<h3>Proactive Love<\/h3>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><strong>Dateline El Cajon, California\u2026<\/strong>By Brian Flores, FOX 5 San Diego Reporter<br \/>\nMore than 600 El Cajon students created signs and formed a human chain around\u00a0 an elementary school Thursday, pledging to make it a &#8220;bully-free\u00a0 school.&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;This is a no\u00a0 bullying zone, and we&#8217;re not going to put up with it,&#8221; said Bostonia\u00a0 Elementary School principal Cindy White.\u00a0 White&#8217;s school held several\u00a0events on campus during the week to\u00a0 remind and teach students about bullying and how to prevent it.\u00a0 &#8220;We haven&#8217;t had as much of a problem as\u00a0 we have now,&#8221; said White. &#8220;We do have bullying incidences that happen\u00a0 down to our kindergarten level.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">\u00a0It&#8217;s not just in\u00a0 El Cajon where students are taking a stand. Bullying remains a nationwide\u00a0 problem.\u00a0 According national statistics,<br \/>\nmore than 13 million students have experienced some form of bullying.\u00a0 In San Diego, about 10 percent of students\u00a0 drop out of school because of repeated bullying, according to the San Diego\u00a0 Office of Education.\u00a0 &#8220;Sometimes it&#8217;ll be racially motivated. It may be motivated by how a student looks, how a student acts,&#8221; said White.\u00a0 &#8220;When you have one child that&#8217;s more\u00a0 dominant that tends to over and over confront another student, than that is\u00a0 bullying.&#8221;\u00a0 White said this is a\u00a0 statement that students, staff, parents, and the community need to make bully-free schools.\u00a0 &#8220;We are\u00a0 committed to ensuring a bully-free school and every one of us has a part in making that happen,&#8221; said White.\u00a0 [end\u00a0 of article]<\/p>\n<p>Bullying is a serious problem in our schools from\u00a0 the elementary level right through college. According to the National Education Association 160,000 students stay\u00a0 home from school everyday due to bullying.\u00a0 Think about that for a moment\u2026every day160,000 students are so <strong>afraid<\/strong> that they do not have the\u00a0 courage to go to school.\u00a0 Can we agree\u00a0 that this statistic is not only nuts, but unacceptable?<\/p>\n<p>The\u00a0 month of October is National\u00a0 Bullying Prevention Awareness Month.\u00a0 As\u00a0 Christians who are called to love all, even our enemies, and to speak up on\u00a0 behalf of those who cannot speak up for themselves, can\u2019t we do something about\u00a0 this?\u00a0 I\u2019m not talking about \u201cgoing rogue\u201d\u00a0 which is the world\u2019s response, but working together as the \u201cBody of Christ\u201d to\u00a0 bring some hope to those who live in fear.<\/p>\n<h3>Discussion Questions<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Why do you think some people become bullies?<\/li>\n<li>Does your school have an anti-bullying program?\u00a0 Do you think it works?<\/li>\n<li>What do you think might help reduce bullying in your school?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Scripture Texts (NRSV) for Sunday, October 23, 2011 (Nineteenth Sunday after Pentecost)<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bible.oremus.org\/?ql=184924174\">Leviticus 19:1-2, 15-18;<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bible.oremus.org\/?ql=184924206\">1 Thessalonians 2:1-8<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bible.oremus.org\/?ql=184924248\">Matthew 22:34-46<\/a><\/p>\n<p>(Text links are to <a href=\"http:\/\/bible.oremus.org\/\">Oremus Bible Browser<\/a>. Oremus Bible Browser is not affiliated with or supported by the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America. You can find the calendar of readings for Year C at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.elca.org\/Growing-In-Faith\/Worship\/Lectionary.aspx\">Lectionary Readings<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>For lectionary humor and insight, check the weekly comic <a href=\"http:\/\/www.agnusday.org\/\">Agnus Day.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Gospel Reflection<\/h3>\n<p>In the twenty-second chapter of Matthew Jesus is confronted by the religious authorities on a number of occasions.\u00a0 Today we are told that after Jesus had quieted the Sadducees, the Pharisees got together to test Jesus by trying to force Jesus to pick one of the commandments over the others.\u00a0 Jesus doesn\u2019t fall for the trick.\u00a0 Instead Jesus quotes two very well known (to the Jews of Jesus\u2019 day) Old Testament passages.\u00a0 The first is called the Shema which every Jew recited often.\u00a0 It is from Deuteronomy 6:4-5: \u201cHear, O Israel; the Lord our God, the Lord is one; you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.\u201d\u00a0 Jesus then adds a passage from Leviticus 19:18 (our first reading for today): \u201cYou shall love your neighbor as yourself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Now, you may note that while the Pharisees asked for one commandment, Jesus gave two commandments.\u00a0 That is the unique thing about this passage.\u00a0 Jesus links the love of God with the love of neighbor and self.\u00a0 Don\u2019t be fooled by the phrase \u201cand a second is like it.\u201d\u00a0 For Jesus the two are equal and flow in and out of each other as if it were one commandment.\u00a0 As we love God with all we have, we are naturally drawn to love our neighbor.<\/p>\n<p>When Martin Luther reformed the Church, he too linked love of God with love of neighbor.\u00a0 In his Small Catechism (which many of you are now familiar with, right?) Luther\u2019s explanations to the commandments state how we should love our neighbor and be \u201cproactive\u201d in our serving of neighbor.\u00a0 For example, Luther\u2019s explanation to the eighth commandment \u201cYou shall not bear false witness\u201d (which seems to apply to the bullying issue!) Luther states:\u00a0 \u201cWe are fear and love God, so that we do not tell lies about our neighbors, betray or slander them, or destroy their reputations.\u00a0 Instead <em>we are to come to their defense, speak well of them, and interpret everything they do in the best possible light.<\/em>\u201d (italics mine).<\/p>\n<p>This is the link to the bullying issue mentioned above.\u00a0 Our fellow students are our neighbors.\u00a0 We are not only to comfort those who are being bullied (reactive love which is very, very good and helpful) but we are also called to show proactive love, a love that works against the evil of bullying.\u00a0 We can do that by praying for the victims of bullying (and for the bully\u2026remember we are to also love our enemies!), we can band together with one another, teachers and parents to work against bullying as the folks in El Cajon are doing, and we can speak out as we feel safe and able against bullying.\u00a0 If we totally ignore the problem we only allow it to continue.\u00a0 Jesus and Martin Luther suggest we do more than that\u2026that we show forth our love of God by loving and protecting our neighbor.<\/p>\n<h3>Discussion Questions<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00a0Do you agree with Jesus linking the love of God with love of neighbor?\u00a0 Why or why not?<\/li>\n<li>The prophets often spoke a proactive love to the people of God and were treated badly for it.\u00a0 What are some of the obstacles to showing proactive love toward our neighbor especially around the issue of bullying?<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: small\">What is one thing you will commit yourself to this week to work against bullying?\u00a0 For suggestions visit this website:\u00a0 www.StopBullyingNow.hrsa.gov<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Activity Suggestions<\/h3>\n<p>Gather your Youth Group or friends, write a script and make your own anti-bullying video!\u00a0 For inspiration watch this YouTube video by<br \/>\n\u201cthe Mustache Man\u201d. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=S1ZGx6aBJG0&amp;feature=player_embedded\">http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=S1ZGx6aBJG0&amp;feature=player_embedded<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>\u00a0Closing Prayer<\/h3>\n<p>Gracious and loving God, send you Holy Spirit upon us.\u00a0 Fill us with a strong and sincere love for you.\u00a0 May it be so strong that it empowers us to love our neighbor and work for the common good.\u00a0 Be with all those who are afraid this day to even do the simple task of going to school.\u00a0 Give them courage and hope and if it be your will, use us as instruments to work against the evil of bullying.\u00a0 We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, Love incarnate.\u00a0 Amen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Contributed by Dennis Sepper, Pacific Lutheran University &nbsp; Warm-up Question Did you help someone out today?\u00a0 How?\u00a0 How did it make you feel? 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