Safety or Faith: Must I Choose Between the Two?
It was a plain, white piece of copy paper tacked on a bulletin board with this simple message:
This is a safe haven. If you are in an abusive or dangerous situation you can use our telephone to contact the local sexual assault and domestic violence hotline.
My reaction as I hurried past the church bulletin board was one of thankfulness, hope and pleasure mixed with a brief memory of sadness, loss and regret.
It always pleases me to find churches willing to engage in creating communities free of violence and abuse. There is much to be gained when churches partner with community agencies to prevent domestic violence. Although coordinated community responses to violence are more common now, it wasn’t always this way. Many faith communities still believe the old adage “not in my church” which translates into denying the reality and presence of serious problems like domestic violence and sexual assault. It’s time to take that phrase “not in my church” and transform it from a statement that implies “those things don’t happen here” to a passionate declaration of our desire to create safe places starting with The Church.
My sadness from viewing that small poster came as I wondered what might be different today if that poster had been available in my church more than 30 years ago. At that time, I was in college and my dad sent me a newspaper clipping that completely shocked me.
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